Generosity Reflection: Edy Strand

As part of Trinity's 2025 generosity initiative, "Living Generously, Loving Boldly," members were asked to reflect on what it means to live generously.

What does it mean to you to live generously?

By Edy Strand

I think we all have a similar understanding of what someone means when they say “generosity.” It’s often thought of as the quality of being kind, or charitable or big-hearted. Generosity is often described as giving more than what is necessary or expected. But over time, I’ve come to believe that generosity is not just a quality – it must be an act. To me, being generous means looking for ways to actively give.

I've always given to the churches of which I have been a member. It wasn’t something I gave much thought though. It was expected and needed, and as a member, I was happy to and felt obligated to contribute. But I never looked for ways to be generous. However, over the few years I have been a member of Trinity, I find I am more thoughtful about what I contribute, interpersonally, financially and in performing service. I keep thinking about intention. I have come to recognize that I now have a different intent in giving, both in time and money. It's no longer just about fulfilling an obligation; it's about making a meaningful impact. Actually living generously with intent.

I think this change in attitude is - at least in part - due to the generous spirit of this church community. The fact that all are welcome is more than a saying– it is lived. I see people living generously all around me: the many people who took time to greet me and made me feel welcome when I was new here; all the people who serve in the many ministries here; the inclusion of children in worship - and so much more. Opportunities for connection and deepening faith are all around. It’s kind of contagious!

I see the future of Trinity as one filled with growth and change and having even more positive impact in the community. Having only been a member for a few years, I haven’t experienced the transformations this church has had to make over the years. But the discussions during recent forums on re-Imagining the Trinity ministry makes me confident that generosity is alive and well lived in our congregation and I am excited to be a part of it. I’m certainly still growing in terms of living generously. I have met some great role models here – and look forward to maintaining that pursuit.